The Benefits of Babywearing
Obviously using a sling is very convenient for the parents. Wearing your baby allows you to have two free hands. This is very useful during those early months and beyond! More importantly, babywearing offers numerous benefits to baby.
The Benefits to Parents
Like it or not, you will spend a lot of time trying to console your newborn by pacing around the house. My first son had colic for the first 12 weeks. (I later realized the dairy that I was eating was causing this) I spent 4 hours every night walking up and down the hall of my tiny apartment while he cried. I did not have a ring sling then. I wish I had! It would have saved me many nights of sore arms. With my second baby and then all the way to my sixth baby, I had a ring sling and they loved it! Very early on, my babies would recognize their sling and get excited! They still had their fussy newborn nights but I had my sling to save my arms as I walked around the house.
The ring sling can become the second set of arms you need when you have more than one child. I take it everywhere we go. It allows me to have both arms free to catch my toddlers as well as nurse discreetly in public. If at anytime while we are out, my baby gets fussy or tired, I can put him in his sling and he calms down or falls asleep. I use it while nursing him to sleep at home as well. A surefire way to calm a fussy baby is to breastfeed baby while in your sling or hold your baby in your sling as you bounce on an exercise ball. Added bonus to mom- this allows you to have two free hands to browse the internet as well! Three of my children spent many weeks in the NICU and the sling was a great way for us to bond and do kangaroo care during my visits.
With permission, I have taken a little info from one of my favorite baby raising web sites: www.askdrsears.com.
The Benefits Of Babywearing
1. Sling babies cry less. Parents in my practice commonly report, "As long as I wear her, she's content!" Parents of fussy babies who try babywearing relate that their babies seem to forget to fuss. This is more than just my own impression. In 1986, a team of pediatricians in Montreal reported on a study of ninety-nine mother-infant pairs. The first group of parents were provided with a baby carrier and assigned to carry their babies for at least three extra hours a day. They were encouraged to carry their infants throughout the day, regardless of the state of the infant, not just in response to crying or fussing. In the control, or noncarried group, parents were not given any specific instructions about carrying. After six weeks, the infants who received supplemental carrying cried and fussed 43 percent less than the noncarried group.
Anthropologists who travel throughout the world studying infant-care practices in other cultures agree that infants in babywearing cultures cry much less. In Western culture we measure a baby's crying in hours, but in other cultures, crying is measured in minutes. We have been led to believe that it is "normal" for babies to cry a lot, but in other cultures this is not accepted as the norm. In these cultures, babies are normally "up" in arms and are put down only to sleep next to the mother. When the parent must attend to her own needs, the baby is in someone else's arms.
2. Sling babies learn more. If infants spend less time crying and fussing, what do they do with the free time? They learn! Sling babies spend more time in the state of quiet alertness . This is the behavioral state in which an infant is most content and best able to interact with his environment. It may be called the optimal state of learning for a baby. Researchers have also reported that carried babies show enhanced visual and auditory alertness.
The behavioral state of quiet alertness also gives parents a better opportunity to interact with their baby. Notice how mother and baby position their faces in order to achieve this optimal visually interactive plane. The human face, especially in this position, is a potent stimulator for interpersonal bonding. In the kangaroo carry, baby has a 180-degree view of her environment and is able to scan her world. She learns to choose, picking out what she wishes to look at and shutting out what she doesn't. This ability to make choices enhances learning. A sling baby learns a lot in the arms of a busy caregiver.
3. Sling babies are more organized. It's easier to understand babywearing when you think of a baby's gestation as lasting eighteen months 9 nine months inside the womb and at least nine more months outside. The womb environment automatically regulates baby's systems. Birth temporarily disrupts this organization. The more quickly, however, baby gets outside help with organizing these systems, the more easily he adapts to the puzzle of life outside the womb. By extending the womb experience, the babywearing mother (and father) provides an external regulating system that balances the irregular and disorganized tendencies of the baby. Picture how these regulating systems work. Mother's rhythmic walk, for example, (which baby has been feeling for nine months) reminds baby of the womb experience. This familiar rhythm, imprinted on baby's mind in the womb, now reappears in the "outside womb" and calms baby. As baby places her ear against her mother's chest, mother's heartbeat, beautifully regular and familiar, reminds baby of the sounds of the womb. As another biological regulator, baby senses mother's rhythmic breathing while worn tummy- to-tummy, chest-to-chest. Simply stated, regular parental rhythms have a balancing effect on the infant's irregular rhythms. Babywearing "reminds" the baby of and continues the motion and balance he enjoyed in the womb.
Sling Tip: The Maternal Connection of the womb lasts eighteen months:
Nine months inside mother, and nine months outside.
What may happen if the baby spends most of his time lying horizontally in a crib, attended to only for feeding and comforting, and then again separated from mother? A newborn has an inherent urge to become organized, to fit into his or her new environment. If left to his own resources, without the regulating presence of the mother, the infant may develop disorganized patterns of behavior: colicky cries, jerky movements, disorganized self-rocking behaviors, anxious thumb sucking, irregular breathing, and disturbed sleep. The infant, who is forced to self-calm, wastes valuable energy he could have used to grow and develop.
While there is a variety of child-rearing theories, attachment researchers all agree on one thing: In order for a baby's emotional, intellectual, and physiological systems to function optimally, the continued presence of the mother, as during babywearing, is a necessary regulatory influence.
4. Sling babies get "humanized" earlier. Another reason that babywearing enhances learning is that baby is intimately involved in the caregiver's world. Baby sees what mother or father sees, hears what they hear, and in some ways feels what they feel. Carried babies become more aware of their parents' faces, walking rhythms, and scents. Baby becomes aware of, and learns from, all the subtle facial expressions, body language, voice inflections and tones, breathing patterns, and emotions of the caregiver. A parent will relate to the baby a lot more often, because baby is sitting right under her nose. Proximity increases interaction, and baby can constantly be learning how to be human. Carried babies are intimately involved in their parents' world because they participate in what mother and father are doing. A baby worn while a parent washes dishes, for example, hears, smells, sees, and experiences in depth the adult world. He is more exposed to and involved in what is going on around him. Baby learns much in the arms of a busy person.
5. Sling babies are smarter. Environmental experiences stimulate nerves to branch out and connect with other nerves, which helps the brain grow and develop. Babywearing helps the infant's developing brain make the right connections. Because baby is intimately involved in the mother and father's world, she is exposed to, and participates in, the environmental stimuli that mother selects and is protected from those stimuli that bombard or overload her developing nervous system. She so intimately participates in what mother is doing that her developing brain stores a myriad of experiences, called patterns of behavior. These experiences can be thought of as thousands of tiny short-run movies that are filed in the infant's neurological library to be rerun when baby is exposed to a similar situation that reminds her of the making of the original "movie." For example, mothers often tell me, "As soon as I pick up the sling and put it on, my baby lights up and raises his arms as if in anticipation that he will soon be in my arms and in my world."
I have noticed that sling babies seem more attentive, clicking into adult conversations as if they were part of it. Babywearing enhances speech development. Because baby is up at voice and eye level, he is more involved in conversations. He learns a valuable speech lesson the ability to listen.
Normal ambient sounds, such as the noises of daily activities, may either have learning value for the infant or disturb him. If baby is alone, sounds may frighten him. If baby is worn, these sounds have learning value. The mother filters out what she perceives as unsuitable for the baby and gives the infant an "It's okay" feeling when he is exposed to unfamiliar sounds and experiences.
Little Tips From Me
Babies can cry a lot during the first 3-4 months. I promise you that if you answer every cry as quickly as possible and with compassion, you will end up with a baby who hardly ever cries. By answering all of their cries in the beginning, they learn that you are there for them, that they can trust you and that you can anticipate their needs before they become an issue. I get comments all the time on what good babies that I have. I owe it all to trusting my heart... just so happens that trusting my heart always turns out to be what is best for them as well.
I am 99% convinced that colic is caused by things that the baby has to digest as a newborn, be it through mother's milk or through formula. Most of the time, these bouts of crying are caused by the large animal proteins found in dairy products. With all of my children, I have cut dairy out of my diet during the first six months of their lives and have noticed a dramatic drop in the amount of crying that they did. Finally with my third (live and learn!), I learned about probiotics as well. This combined with limiting the amount of dairy that I was eating caused me to have a happy baby who rarely ever cried from belly pain. I wish someone would have told me about it with my first but we all learn as we go. The good thing is that by continuing to breastfeed, you slowly introduce them to the offending foods, thereby gradually building their tolerance for them. A newborns digestive system is not fully developed until around 4-6 months. We are not supposed to drink the milk from a cow so its no wonder that so many babies have issues with this food source. If you want any more information on this please email me!
I have a passion for breastfeeding education and attachment parenting methods. All six of our children are/were breastfed without any supplementing.
Our third son was born 6 weeks early and with a cleft. Despite being told by doctors that I would not be able to breastfeed him, he was exclusively nursed at the breast until seven months and then continued continued to breastfeed until the age of two. I am always here to help with any breastfeeding issues, colic issues or cleft-related issues. Please email me if you have any questions or need help.
My fourth child was a planned homebirth. However, my water broke at 33 weeks and 6 days. At that point, I no longer felt comfortable birthing at home- for his sake. My third son was born via a csection birth and I did not want to go through that experience again. So, to avoid another csection, I refused any induction methods or vaginal examines (to diminish the risk of infection). I remained in the hospital for 11 days, with my water ruptured, until I finally went into labor on my own! I was able to have a 100% natural, VBAC (vaginal birth after cesarean), with my husband, oldest son (7yo) and my doula in the hospital. It was hard birthing this way in the hospital. We had to argue with doctors, constantly look things up and even sign waivers but in the end we ended up with exactly what we wanted- a healthy baby and a healthy mom! The baby and I left the hospital 48 hours later, both doing great. The recovery from my VBAC was amazing compared to my csection birth. We trusted out guts, my body and God and ended up with a beautiful, healthy baby boy. If you need information on VBAC's orPROM feel free to email me.
Our fifth and sixth children were twins! They were born early at 29 weeks. I went into labor on my own and they doctors were able to stop it once but not the second time. Despite their best efforts, I still dilated to 10cm. They were 2lbs 10oz and 2lbs 13 ozs and spent 10 weeks in the NICU. Very hard time for us! But they are now doing great, are catching up in size and are exclusively breastfeeding. They are now over two years old, completely caught up gestationally and still breastfeeding! :) *Update- they nursed until 3 years old, when I weaned them.
All SweetPea Ring Slings are made by me in my sewing room.
The design has been tried and tested and I take pride in the quality of my slings.
Thank you for your interest in my slings. I love knowing that I am helping to keep babies close to their caregivers.
Hold them while you can.